I don't think he meant for them to be 'toys' just something his kids could appreciate =)I've never been a fan of using an animal as a toy. I seen to many 4 and 5 year olds break dogs legs. Not on purpose but from lack of knowing how to hold a puppy and even understanding. If I had childern around here they would not pick up my chickens for sure. To many bad experences. The " I didn't mean too", or "I'm sorry" don't do much when the animals hurt.
Then that's just me.
PROS of Bantams:
They eat less
They are smaller for your kids to handle
Littler eggs so your kinds don't waster half the egg like i did when i was younger. I would only eat half then be full, but these eggs are perfect for youngers!
They take up less space
CONS of bantams
They will fly
They might be harder to catch
Littler eggs (for your sake)
I would look into getting a few of each: standard and bantam
It all depends on what kind you get, if you want them for eggs then do standard barred rock, ameraucana, or buff orpingtons
if you want some for meat then do buff orpingtons (my preference) or Cornish Cross. (The cornish cross grow quicker which makes them not have as much flavor)
If you want them for pets then i would definitely do Silkies. They are super nice, and they would make a great pet!
thanks,
Sam