That's totally up to you but I would say, anyone should know what they are getting into before doing it. To expect someone to pay for shipping when they never expected isn't all that right. If she agrees then fine but she doesn't have to agree. Most of CPL's offers of chicks was with the understanding that CPL paid the shipping. I am in no means trying to start an argument.
Well, it certainly would be better for me if I hadn't taken them. Less mouths to feed and etc. I'm not sure it would necessarily be better for everyone all the way around. I tend to be helpful whenever I can (Krafty, you want to back me up here, please?) and yes, sometimes it bites me in the but.