Making the most of it.

[lindalouly]

There is that hidden unknown of what he understands. I think he is very sheltered... And homeschooled. He still learning social graces.

 

[Chaos18]

Hard to learn something that's never been taught. Like I said, you're a better person than I am.

 

[lindalouly]

Lol. My main thread is grannies house. I just visit the incu thread. I mainly talk to him in private messages. I don't have to read everything he does.

 

[Chaos18]

So how are things round your place this morning?

 

[lindalouly]

Yesterday was tough, got into the worse fight with the oldest son.. Scared his girlfriend. I apologized and we all hugged and made up but I feel guilty... I always struggle with this one cause we are so much alike. I got to work on our quality time.

 

[lindalouly]

He says I'm not affectionate.. He is right in a lot of what he says. I really need to work on it.

 

[Chaos18]

Sorry to hear that about the kiddo

Spending quality time with somebody can look very different from person to person as well. One person might be content to just be in the same room. while another might need to go out and do something together to feel like it was quality time.
Just imagine that he's me..........than you'll be more affectionate

sorry couldn't help myself

 

[lindalouly]

Sorry to hear that about the kiddo  Spending quality time with somebody can look very different from person to person as well. One person might be content to just be in the same room. while another might need to go out and do something together to feel like it was quality time.
Just imagine that he's me..........than you'll be more affectionate sorry couldn't help myself

Hahaha. He is a cuddler. And very touchy feely... Almost 17 years old and needs mamma all the time. I have a tough time cause I'm always yelling or chasing after the others that I'm too tired when he wants to hang out.

 

[kwhites634]

Lol! I bet!! Actually dealing with the kid is easier than dealing with mine!! Hahahaha I lose my temper with mine... I can step away from the computer with the kid.

Easier to block him, like I've done...3 times

 

[Chaos18]

Hahaha. He is a cuddler. And very touchy feely... Almost 17 years old and needs mamma all the time. I have a tough time cause I'm always yelling or chasing after the others that I'm too tired when he wants to hang out.

I know it's hard but somethings are worth the effort