I've been sitting here this morning skimming this thread over a cup of coffee and can well sympathize with the OP.
I think everyone has at one time or another the neighbor from H***. You cannot deal with them with any sort of logic. Mine was before I met my husband and was an obnoxious little toad of a man who set out for revenge when I did not respond to his 'romantic' overtures. YUCK! Even the police, who had a long standing record of dealing with calls about this individual recognized what was happening and what I had to deal with from him.
When I bought the property and moved in I plainly told him, "No, I will not go out with you but I'll make this deal with you. You be a good neighbor to me and I'll be a good neighbor to you. If you are not a good neighbor to me, I will be your worst nightmare."
5 years later after a particularly nasty incident where I caught him teasing my dogs and made my umpteenth call to the authorities about it, the police told him, one more call from me concerning his harassment and they would arrest him. I reminded him at that time about what I had told him when I had first moved in and he admitted that I had kept my word about being his worse nightmare.
It sounds like you have the same attitude as I did at that time and are refusing to be a victim to your nightmare neighbor. Good for you.
I am also a Lyme survivor and victim and I can tell you this. You do not need this stress on you. Stress and Lyme do not mix. It will cause your symptoms to escalate and make you feel sicker than you can ever imagine. My health care provider has told me to avoid stress. Easier said than done I know .
Chronic Lyme? Yep, I'm a believer. I've done the Doxy thing and I know what you are talking about when you say you have sun sensitivity. I couldn't even go near a window and my skin got so sensitive that it would blister and peel off. It's nasty stuff. Are you doing any homeopathic treatments like detoxing with lemon and water or doing Epsom salt baths to draw the toxins out of your body? I really feel for you and what you are going through with the Lyme. It's been 6 years since my first round with it. You do not need the stress your neighbor is putting you through. You have enough to fight just trying to get your Lyme into remission.
I hope things settle down for you and you can live if not in peace, at least with a cease fire with this individual. It kinda looks as if your life depends on it at this point.
I think everyone has at one time or another the neighbor from H***. You cannot deal with them with any sort of logic. Mine was before I met my husband and was an obnoxious little toad of a man who set out for revenge when I did not respond to his 'romantic' overtures. YUCK! Even the police, who had a long standing record of dealing with calls about this individual recognized what was happening and what I had to deal with from him.
When I bought the property and moved in I plainly told him, "No, I will not go out with you but I'll make this deal with you. You be a good neighbor to me and I'll be a good neighbor to you. If you are not a good neighbor to me, I will be your worst nightmare."
5 years later after a particularly nasty incident where I caught him teasing my dogs and made my umpteenth call to the authorities about it, the police told him, one more call from me concerning his harassment and they would arrest him. I reminded him at that time about what I had told him when I had first moved in and he admitted that I had kept my word about being his worse nightmare.
It sounds like you have the same attitude as I did at that time and are refusing to be a victim to your nightmare neighbor. Good for you.
I am also a Lyme survivor and victim and I can tell you this. You do not need this stress on you. Stress and Lyme do not mix. It will cause your symptoms to escalate and make you feel sicker than you can ever imagine. My health care provider has told me to avoid stress. Easier said than done I know .
Chronic Lyme? Yep, I'm a believer. I've done the Doxy thing and I know what you are talking about when you say you have sun sensitivity. I couldn't even go near a window and my skin got so sensitive that it would blister and peel off. It's nasty stuff. Are you doing any homeopathic treatments like detoxing with lemon and water or doing Epsom salt baths to draw the toxins out of your body? I really feel for you and what you are going through with the Lyme. It's been 6 years since my first round with it. You do not need the stress your neighbor is putting you through. You have enough to fight just trying to get your Lyme into remission.
I hope things settle down for you and you can live if not in peace, at least with a cease fire with this individual. It kinda looks as if your life depends on it at this point.