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I think the OP knows they were in the wrong too. It's just a bit of a rub to be expected to right your wrongs while the other side uses you as a doormat. There should be better communications. The neighbor thought the chickens were an intrusion and a nuisance and had no qualms about telling the OP. The OP now needs to open the communication the other way and air their grievances. Personally, I would say, "I know my chickens have been an issue in your yard. I am solving the problem with a fence. It's nothing personal, but I have to contain the birds. I also think that the fires in my yard present a liability. I'm sorry but you will have to establish your own burn pile. Since the chickens free range, the herb garden may have to be moved too. I will help you move the plants. I hope you're not offended and understand that I need to keep my chickens safe, and I want to be friends. Let's go have lunch!"
If the OP has a talk with him, he will either get it or he won't. If he's a decent person he will understand and move on. If he gets mad and stays mad, he wasn't really a good neighbor anyway and it would have escalated to much worse without the fence and new rules.
+10!