There are reasons guys like girls like that anyhow. They don't always always like women that feel they have to work so hard to prove that they are tough. Most guys like femininity to feel like they are needed for things like protection and security for their gal. I agree a girl can push it too wimpy and pathetic... but just kick back, be yourself the right guy will love you for who you are. No need to prove anything. I myself am a tomboy, but I know how to clean up and be feminine as well. Find some balance and be happy. Your young anyhow and have a lot of time. *hugs*