Post Your Crushes Thread 3.0

[Chickenfan4life]

Quote: It sucks. I think he said he was moving, so I guess it doesn't really matter, either way...

 

[Bossy Bantams]

It sucks. I think he said he was moving, so I guess it doesn't really matter, either way...

oh, I'm sorry. :/

 

[Chickenfan4life]

Okay, so, a friend of mine from the shelter group broke up with her boyfriend, who's also in the shelter group. Why is this so serious I need to post it here?

Because now I see him everyday. He is a cute guy, blonde shaggy hair, blue eyes, a rugged build... But he was her boyfriend up until now. Aside from that, I don't think he's for me. Anyways, it's become very noticeable that he is flirting... With me!

So now I have my best friend's EX-boyfriend flirting with ME! This is incredibly awkward for me! How do I deal with this without hurting the guy's feelings and making sure my friend doesn't get upset (because, yes, if she's a friend, she should understand, but sometimes it's hard to when you're hurt inside.)

So please help me out, guys! D:

 

[member 142084]

Okay, so, a friend of mine from the shelter group broke up with her boyfriend, who's also in the shelter group. Why is this so serious I need to post it here?

Because now I see him everyday. He is a cute guy, blonde shaggy hair, blue eyes, a rugged build... But he was her boyfriend up until now. Aside from that, I don't think he's for me. Anyways, it's become very noticeable that he is flirting... With me!

So now I have my best friend's EX-boyfriend flirting with ME! This is incredibly awkward for me! How do I deal with this without hurting the guy's feelings and making sure my friend doesn't get upset (because, yes, if she's a friend, she should understand, but sometimes it's hard to when you're hurt inside.)

So please help me out, guys! D:

Easy.. tell him you are not interested in him in more than just a friendly way. Then in time it will cool off. I have had to divert a few. And if he persists tell her what has been going on. You can't satisfy everyone's feelings. Just give her some time to get over the breakup. You can PM me for more details if you like Hanah.

 

[SampyArctica]

Does he have to be a real person...?
Because I'm notorious for falling in love with fictional characters.

 

[member 142084]

Quote:
yes.. I saw him in a pic before and was like wow. so sad hes ... a 'he he' But man to look at MMmmmm Mmmm mmmm. But you did bring up the white collar revelation. I haven't seen more than previews.. but that's enough for me

 

[SilkiesForEver]

Quote: Yep, I've had a couple guys show their 'feelings' for me.

I wasn't interested, so I clearly showed them I wasn't. Nothing rude, I just got the point across. I don't mean to contridict Chic, she probably knows more about these things than we do, but I wouldn't go up to him and tell him you're not interested. Because..... whho knows? Maybe he's not interested in you (don't take offense from this, Hannah), maybe he's just trying to make his "EX" (gee that sounded dumb

) jelous.

I don't know if that helped, but that's the advice I'd give to one of my friends.

 

[Megan Amber]

My crush. beautiful. Can't wait until I get to see her better.

 

[Nightwish]

My crush. beautiful. Can't wait until I get to see her better.

Oh she's a cutie! XD Makes me want to have one.

Ahh hope she gets well.

 

[member 142084]

Quote:
you are cute ha ha.. settle down trust me when you get married they often come faster than you want it to