I'm so sorry. It sounds like an impossible situation. I hope your mother doesn't know. Keep us informed if you can, and take care. Maybe a summer in California for you all? Will be thinking of you... best wishes for all.My mom...is mostly deaf, mostly blind, doesn't walk well or far...and she believed the "boys" had a 7:15 tee time when in reality, they were coming here to harrass us for a situation that is 100% out of our control and truthfully, not affecting our little family, and certainly none of their business...
She is trapped, and I cannot help her.
My cousin is watching out for her tho...but, in reality, should my brother go off again, cousin cannot protect herself or my mother, unless she is armed.
My older brother is getting the proceeds from the sale of my home so...he isn't helping at all...he wants the money.