Syba's Story [Do Not Give Up Unless They Have Given Up!]

There is something that should be highlighted from this story. Not all vets are equal. I've seen veterinary practices that range from incompetent to bleeding-edge. The ideal time to find that great vet is before shit hits the fan, not during, although finding it during is better than not finding it at all.

(To the OP: assuming I didn't read that part too fast and missed something, a vet's office doing cat/dog practice without an ultrasound machine doesn't sound right to me :/ . It does look like you're sticking with Dr. Carl in any case. Too bad about your $900+ spent on the first one.)

I'm not trying to be ageist but my experience with a number of veterinary offices suggests to be careful about older DVMs, and be careful of the really small practices (like 1 vet + 1 assistant). The best ones I've found work out of a local university's teaching veterinary hospital plus they teach at the university. The incompetent vet was a 2 person practice (one DVM + one assistant or something) that catered to an ethnic minority that had historically lived in the area. In another office where there were 4 vets of widely-varying ages, I came to believe that the oldest one was the worst (he was also the owner of the practice and a snob, for what it's worth).

Medicine and veterinary are NOT fields where someone who has been in-the-field for 30+ years is necessarily better than someone who's been out of school for 10 years. The opposite can be possible. A younger vet will have come out of a more modern veterinary program, for one thing. One does not want to use a vet whose whose knowledge as a vet is static, or who feels like they've been doing this so long that they are comfortable with not following the field's developments and not continuing to develop their knowledge and skill. A vet that comes off like an old-country-doctor should scare you.

I think that sometimes, when you have an animal that is in trouble, and you go to a vet, you keep telling yourself "This is a good vet, this is a good vet" because you want it to be true. You want to believe it because you're entrusting them with something that's feels so important to you. It's next to impossible to keep an objective frame of mind when you feel like your emotions are in a state of quiet, grinding terror, and here's this person who from all appearances is endeavouring to help your sick animal. If you have not slept properly (as is so common if you have an animal that is sick), your mind is further broken in ways you're unlikely to recognize at the time.

People won't necessarily be able to keep a clear head while things like this are going down. But when you are able to mentally come up for air, whenever that is, don't close your mind to looking around for a better vet than what you have. Like the OP experienced, there may be much better to be had than the first office you visited.

The vet you really want might not be conveniently-located and might require some footwork to identify. These days, vet practices have web sites and with the practice you want, you should be able to find educational/specialist/research/etc links about the specific DVMs. Also in my experience the best vets charge more $$$ BUT that's NOT a sole indicator of things. Some vets overcharge, especially ones in a location that would be likely to service what you would call middle-upper-class or upper-class. Just mentioning that to say, when you think you found that great vet, don't expect it to also be the dollar store of vets. That's not how these things work.
 
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There is something that should be highlighted from this story. Not all vets are equal. I've seen veterinary practices that range from incompetent to bleeding-edge. The ideal time to find that great vet is before shit hits the fan, not during, although finding it during is better than not finding it at all....................

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Teila .... so very glad that everything turned out well for beautiful Syba. He is one brave and very determined little soul, to have passed that stone by himself - it would have been a very painful experience, but good thing is, cats / dogs / horses etc. forget about it all within minutes. ... They regard themselves grateful to have rid themselves of the pain. End of for them ... unlike us, who remember.

As for the first vet, I wish there were lots of swear words I could use to describe him and his almost $1000 cost to you .... bluddy bustard will have to do.

I have only had the experience of one vet who was not only into the booze in a big way, but also admitted he should have done accountancy instead of veterinary practice ; something I knew nothing about, who also knew absolutely NOTHING about epilepsy in dogs ( and finally admitted it after the best epi. vet in Australia ( Sydney ) had contacted him about my epileptic dog after my phone call to that expert.) and who I blame for the ultimate demise of my 4 year old beautiful Jake who died of status epilepticus ( a death sentence ), while he was kenneled as I was in hospital for a month. Meds not correct, blood tests not taken, because of vet ignorance and lack of real vet care. This was 20 years back.

Subsequent vets have been fantastic, and I have never heard them use the words "euthanasia - or "put down". They usually begin a conversation with a seriously ill animal with "well, this doesn't look too flash, does it" ... and leave it to me to ask the hard questions. Which is as it should be.

I think some vets worry more about their money, and whether they will get it, more than they do about the welfare of animals brought to them in trust and hope. More bustards.

So very very pleased to know that Syba is more himself now, and the diet situation you have him on, and more research on the subject, is most important. With careful ministrations, he should live a happy healthy life with you for a long while yet.

Lots of hugs - Annie :hugs
 
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I thought I would post an update because today is Syba's 9th birthday!

Happy birthday to our very special and brave little man .. we love you! :love

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Teila, I loved this story! I adore kitties. I had my own cat Thor for 21 years, when he finally let me know he needed it to be over. He had lived very happily for the final six years of his life with renal failure. I researched it, and found that cooked pumpkin is a good food for cats in renal failure, and he took right to it. He got a couple tablespoons of pumpkin every morning and night with a teaspoon of strained baby meat mixed in. He ate this diet up until the end when he finally refused to eat because he had decided he was done living. Well, 21 years old, he had a right to his decision.

That was five years ago. I still miss him. I hope Syba lives a long and happy life.
 
Teila, I loved this story! I adore kitties. I had my own cat Thor for 21 years, when he finally let me know he needed it to be over. He had lived very happily for the final six years of his life with renal failure. I researched it, and found that cooked pumpkin is a good food for cats in renal failure, and he took right to it. He got a couple tablespoons of pumpkin every morning and night with a teaspoon of strained baby meat mixed in. He ate this diet up until the end when he finally refused to eat because he had decided he was done living. Well, 21 years old, he had a right to his decision.

That was five years ago. I still miss him. I hope Syba lives a long and happy life.

Aaaw, thank you azygous :hugs your story gives me hope that we can enjoy Syba's company for many years to come.

It must have been heartbreaking to lose Thor but I am sure he had a wonderful 21 years with you!

Thank you also for the pumpkin tip; I will definitely try that with Syba. He does have some strange food-likes so pumpkin may be acceptable to his palate.

He is still doing really well and showing no signs of any issues. We count our blessings every day that we listened to him, not the Vet and we ensure we cuddle him long and often :love

5 months down the track, he still has separation anxiety issues, especially from his Dad who he adores, but otherwise, doing well :fl
 
Teila ... it is wonderful news that Syba is doing so well now. The pumpkin sounds very interesting ... I know it stops dogs from eating faeces, but beyond that I knew nothing. And if Syba baulks at pumpkin, the tiniest bit of vegemite watered down a little, would disguise the taste - most all pets love the vegemite taste, and it is often used as a stimulant for appetite, particularly for cats ( a little on their front legs, lick it off, then they relish the tucker offered - unless they are very seriously ill ).

Syba has a truly wonderful family - he is a very fortunate cat .... :hugs

Cheers ....
 
Teila ... it is wonderful news that Syba is doing so well now. The pumpkin sounds very interesting ... I know it stops dogs from eating faeces, but beyond that I knew nothing. And if Syba baulks at pumpkin, the tiniest bit of vegemite watered down a little, would disguise the taste - most all pets love the vegemite taste, and it is often used as a stimulant for appetite, particularly for cats ( a little on their front legs, lick it off, then they relish the tucker offered - unless they are very seriously ill ).

Syba has a truly wonderful family - he is a very fortunate cat .... :hugs

Cheers ....

That's interesting about Vegemite...I figured there had to be other uses for it than humans eating it :lau

@Teila happy belated b-day to Syba (sorry I missed it)!
 
To N F C ... forgot to mention ( slightly off subject now ) ... that Valium administered to cats, off colour as they might be, has a remarkable affect on their appetite. I have witnessed this several times, when cats' stomach had shrunk because of not eating ( the smaller it gets, the less they want to eat - understandably ) ... and Valium makes them extraordinarily hungry - - -so they demolish the small amount of food put in front of them ( in the Vets' clinic ) which gives them a kick-start .... but again, when sick - not when seriously ill into approaching death.

A brilliant cat appetite stimulant is the old Valium - but of course a specific amount according to weight etc. - otherwise it can make them dopey and therefore not interested in much of anything. A vet who knows how to use this medication properly, usually has remarkable results.

Cheers ~~
 
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