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How so? If you don't mind explaining
I am a little lost on the abusive relationship part ... I really didn't get that from it.
First, let me say that there is nothing wrong with enjoying the book. I don't want to ruin anyone's reading experience. But I understand fowltemptress' point.
Bella loosing herself in Edward. She really doesn't have much of a connection with her 'friends' at school. Her entire existence seems to rotate around Edward. That is not romantic, it is unhealthy. I have known women-and men-like this and none of the relationships turned out well. Edward is very controlling. There is never given a reason-at least in the first book-as to why he would want Bella. It never appears that he views her as anything more then an object to be obsessed with.
As long as you understand the faults in the romance, I don't think that the books are harmful. Most people, I hope, see the weakness of the Bella/Edward relationship and understand that obsession is not love.
How so? If you don't mind explaining
First, let me say that there is nothing wrong with enjoying the book. I don't want to ruin anyone's reading experience. But I understand fowltemptress' point.
Bella loosing herself in Edward. She really doesn't have much of a connection with her 'friends' at school. Her entire existence seems to rotate around Edward. That is not romantic, it is unhealthy. I have known women-and men-like this and none of the relationships turned out well. Edward is very controlling. There is never given a reason-at least in the first book-as to why he would want Bella. It never appears that he views her as anything more then an object to be obsessed with.
As long as you understand the faults in the romance, I don't think that the books are harmful. Most people, I hope, see the weakness of the Bella/Edward relationship and understand that obsession is not love.