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Hi Yankr1....and of course all checking in here. Yeah what a topic. It feels so normalizing to find people going through the same thing. I wish there was a way to Pvt msg on this app only because as I know we feel the same about talking to local in person friends and family (basically I won’t)...

Hi Yankr1!! Oh how happy I am to see your notes. I’m about to start in a zoom class but I will be writing to you later this eve. It’s all I have as well.... my heart is broken and sad to say the least. I’m looking forward to a quiet moment to read and reply and let it out. write all you want...

Hi all. Hi @India1931 how are you? I’m needing a hug now from all of u here who get what we are each going through. Anybody there wanting to talk, share, vent about this topic? Some days are fine. Today isn’t one of them. I hope all are well.

Lisa56, india1931 how are you? Are hype in touch with the ex’s? So hard not to reach out over the holidays. Not shopping for him hurts me deeply. 😞

Hi! Wow I am so happy I looked at this thread. I haven’t posted in a couple months because I was feeling like I was talking to myself as others had stopped responding. But I am deeply grateful for this as well. Like so many here I badly miss my ‘son’ my daughters bf. So much has happened. So...

Hi All. Kids back to school... I miss the bf still. I can’t seem to knock it. I was fine for a while. Then about a few sago I kept having this edited feeling that he was close by. So odd. As a result, I started to really miss him again. It will pass I guess. Silly as it sounds I think they’ll...

Hi Rooapalooza. Thanks for sharing your story. It’s interesting to hear from a different family members view. I guess all feelings aside, I am so grateful to have this group to ‘morning the loss’ haha. I sure miss him today and these last days. I guess cuz it’s back to college and I wonder if...

I wish my D would mention the d bf. I think she’d say she HATES him. She broke up with him. I don’t think it was supposed to go this way. But it got sour fast. And he went from crying and sad to very very mean. still, prices of him and them are around the house. She’s removed most but not all...

Yep! Same here on all your points. I can’t help but compare although I try not to. The bf wanted to badly to know me. He wanted to be loved by me (meaning he wanted the kind of mom I was). He tried to impress me and then quickly just became a son. 100% one of the family;included in everything...

Plenty of fish but one that has been a son. So it feels really sad to not know the details of his life. I know he’s made so very bad decisions. I know that wouldn’t have happened in the past. Now I have no input. And I care. So it hurts to not be able to help. Fruitandnut I hope you continue to...

Yup. @Fruitandnut Wow. Everything you’re saying could be my words. I’m not compatible all talking on a public thread . I cannot imagine my d ever ever coming across this but who knows. Crazier things have happened. There is so much I’d like to share and get opinions on. Or just share... it feels...

Hi @Fruitandnut. I got an alert that a post came In on this thread but silly as it sounds, was saving reading it til I could be aline with myself and enjoy the ‘conversation.’ I haven’t really talked to anyone about my feelings and the situation other than on this thread. I wish so bad we could...

I guess it feels like strong negative feelings toward one another came quickly and left. My D won’t mention if they’ve spoken. She’ll talk to me about other boys and social stuff. But not concerning him. Then over the last couple weeks it’s like his name comes up from time to time and it’s ok...

Hi ! It does help I agree. My updates. Where to start. I miss him. I miss them as one. But I miss having a son who genuinely liked me and treated like a mom. I know so little of the day to day stuff. I think he was trying to apologize and try to get back together, but my sense is that he’s not...

Wow. It sounds like he is trying to replace your daughter and it’s not working. That would kill me. To think of him with someone else- even if it wasn’t real or good. Well I’d be doing what your doing. My D is 17. But very precocious. She has always been determined, focused and organized. Until...

It’s been a while but feels like a moment. Does your daughter know you talk? I miss talking to him . Retreading theae is, like you’ve said, so so helpful. To know you aren’t alone. So did you tell your D about his marriage? How did she react? I can’t even think of such a thing. Looking forward...

Hi Jr Jedi. You speak the truth for sure. I have definitely damaged my relationship with my wonderful D. We will be ok. But I definitely have butted in. Mostly because they brought me in. It was great. Now it’s done. For now anyway. But I still love him and miss him. I don’t know details. But I...

Hi. I guess I’m ok. Some days I’m more ok. But oddly I almost don’t want to fee ok. I mean I do- of course. But it’s like I’m scared he will fade out of my life and thoughts and just be gone. I guess that’s what’s supposed to happen.😥 I can’t help but feel their story isn’t over. It’s like I see...

Gray Angel, Do you think your D has had sun here unhappy relationships since they broke up because she still loves him? Or has things unresolved?

Hi Coffeeluvr. So I was just rereading. What I don’t understand is why these guys don’t go after what they want. It seems obvious he is looking for a replacement for your D. Has he tried to win her back/work it out?