True Neroli eo is very very expensive. You would be better off getting a fragrance oil. Here is the link to the fragrance oil finder . Several places have Neroli. Hippiechick, the essential oil is not going to effect the final soap except for the scent. Because the eo's are so expensive and it takes several bottles that size to scent a batch, I would go with peppermint essential oil. It only takes .25 oz ppo to get a great scent.
Here is a link to the suppliers by state . You can look to see if you can find a supplier close to you.
Every oil is a little different, but if you can't find palm, Lard is the closest substitute. The fatty acid profiles are different on both of them so it is going to have a slightly different feel than the palm soap, but it still makes a very good soap.
Buttermilk flakes should be in the baking section of your grocery store. Ask the store if they can order it for you.
Here are some pictures of my soaps in the past.
Here is a link to the suppliers by state . You can look to see if you can find a supplier close to you.
Every oil is a little different, but if you can't find palm, Lard is the closest substitute. The fatty acid profiles are different on both of them so it is going to have a slightly different feel than the palm soap, but it still makes a very good soap.
Buttermilk flakes should be in the baking section of your grocery store. Ask the store if they can order it for you.
Here are some pictures of my soaps in the past.