there are so many breeds who are gentle. I have a dominque that loves to held. I hear the orpingtons are layed back. I think you will hear from lots of folks who have a certain bird/birds that are very docile. Mine sits on my lap and loves to be held. She will check out the dog's feed bowl while they are eating and they don't bother her. It is all in the attention you give them. Now sit back and enjoy all the different breeds you will hear about and the wonderful chicken pet stories you will hear about.