can someone teach me not to freak out? i am allergic to bee stings and the littlest one is allergic to EVERYTHING! i would put him in a bubble if i could. really
Part of how I did this with my kids was by finding the small, harmless bugs and forcing them to interact with them. I found milkweed bugs, pill bugs (roly poly bugs), some caterpillars and worms. I would pick them up and put them in the palm of the girls' hands. Oh, they screamed bloody murder for the first dozen times. I had a few neighbors come out at the old house that thought I was beating the daylights out of my girls. When they saw what was going on, they rolled their eyes and walked away. We are finally to the point where they are ok with them all, but it took a good ten or twelve months of working with them. Now, they are absolutely fascinated with the mealworm colony that I have going. They were even helping catch crickets to feed to the girls. It's been a miraculous change and well worth the fighting.
Now, being allergic to everything makes it all that much more important to teach him to be calm and ok with the insects around, especially bees. If you leave them alone, they will not attack you. It's the crazy people that go around swatting at them to get them away that ultimately get stung. He should really be to the point where a bee can land on him without him freaking out. It could very well save his life later.
It might be well worth the time and money to look in to the allergy desensitisation. I have no idea if anyone does it here in Arizona because it's a fairly new treatment, but they expose the patient to small, controlled doses of the allergens over a long period of time. It's just barely enough to cause a minor allergic reaction and then they allow it to wear off. They repeat this, increasing the exposure until the patient no longer reacts. This is a very similar treatment to what is being done when you eat raw, unfiltered honey on a daily basis to cure seasonal allergies, except it bypasses the mucus membranes and does not cause as severe a reaction.
i know you meant no offense, but i honestly DO freak out wether it's a bee, one of those giant shiny green/black bumbles that seem to chase you all over the yard, a mosquito, a flying grasshopper, praying mantis, ladybug(yes, even a ladybug) I DO NOT UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES LIKE ANY TYPE OF INSECT. EVER! my son has these fake plastic bugs all over the house and oh, they give me the heebee jeebees. think i would rather shave my head.
Now that is too funny about the plastic bugs. My younger brother is much the same way and we've used them to play pranks on him and try to desensitize him. He's getting better, slowly, but he was a drug baby before my parents adopted him, so we're working through a LOT of issues with him. If he saw an ant come near him, he use to jump up and down screaming. He even broke down into tears multiple times because one touched his shoes. I'm not sure if it has to do with living in an extremely unsanitary house as an infant or what. I find it sad to see people like that. Insects can be so interesting.