Hahaha, maybe I should start calling Alicia "she who controls the 'bator brained Ben' hahahaha, I think I need one of those.
IMO, Mrs and Mr is a valid term to use, not derogatory, both our mail gets delivered with that written on there, but instead of Mrs H. I just say Mrs. To me I liken it to the word 'wife' or 'husband', it's a title, albeit most commonly used in abbreviated slang term.
As Fancy says, FAR worse things to call each other.
FTR, my kids call me 'Excuse me Daddy" Hahahaha
IMO, Mrs and Mr is a valid term to use, not derogatory, both our mail gets delivered with that written on there, but instead of Mrs H. I just say Mrs. To me I liken it to the word 'wife' or 'husband', it's a title, albeit most commonly used in abbreviated slang term.
As Fancy says, FAR worse things to call each other.
FTR, my kids call me 'Excuse me Daddy" Hahahaha