I think you are a kind and generous person.Back in December we were going away for our anniversary for the weekend. Someone near where we were going was to be getting two birds from me, so I was planning on taking them along. Just before we left, I found something similar (don't even remember what it was anymore, but something pretty minor). I tried to contact the person to let them know about it but didn't hear back from them before we left, so the birds stayed home. They did want me to bring them anyway, but it was too late. I still have those two birds and am trying to figure out the best way to get them to this person now. I was afraid this would happen again, which is why I made the decision I did today.
big huge hugs at you.