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You sound quite angry. No need. It's OK if someone has a point of view different from yours. To respond to your post:
1. Your choice of terms to describe minors suggests that you have less respect for them than you would wish them to have for you.
2. I didn't ask you to care and you don't need to attempt to make personal remarks about me because you know nothing about me. If you wish to turn my attempt to explain my view into a childish exchange such as that, you're on your own.
3. Smacking a child's face can easily teach him or her the wrong way to behave as an adult. Be careful, especially if you intend to smack someone else's kid.
4. You are an expert in what is the biggest problem with 'the youth of today' and you think it's people with 'my mindset'? There you go generalising. There you go again trying to attack me because you don't agree with me. You credit me with words that I have not written. You also make more disparaging remarks about children. How about an adult discussion of different views? You can try it with adolescents too. There are more subtle and effective way to influence and control children if you take the trouble to learn.
I'm interested to learn more about your own philosophy. So far, and please correct me if I'm wrong, you are saying that you keep control by using fear and beating your children. Is that right? Please expand on that because it is a method of parenting that was once quite common and it would be interesting to get a modern day explanation of how it benefits the children concerned. Getting back to the OP's original complaint, how would you apply your methods personally to the children of other people who annoyed you?
You sound quite angry. No need. It's OK if someone has a point of view different from yours. To respond to your post:
1. Your choice of terms to describe minors suggests that you have less respect for them than you would wish them to have for you.
2. I didn't ask you to care and you don't need to attempt to make personal remarks about me because you know nothing about me. If you wish to turn my attempt to explain my view into a childish exchange such as that, you're on your own.
3. Smacking a child's face can easily teach him or her the wrong way to behave as an adult. Be careful, especially if you intend to smack someone else's kid.
4. You are an expert in what is the biggest problem with 'the youth of today' and you think it's people with 'my mindset'? There you go generalising. There you go again trying to attack me because you don't agree with me. You credit me with words that I have not written. You also make more disparaging remarks about children. How about an adult discussion of different views? You can try it with adolescents too. There are more subtle and effective way to influence and control children if you take the trouble to learn.
I'm interested to learn more about your own philosophy. So far, and please correct me if I'm wrong, you are saying that you keep control by using fear and beating your children. Is that right? Please expand on that because it is a method of parenting that was once quite common and it would be interesting to get a modern day explanation of how it benefits the children concerned. Getting back to the OP's original complaint, how would you apply your methods personally to the children of other people who annoyed you?