My sister and I dont get along as well as I would like. Our relationship is pretty much one you would have with a super casual aqantance . I am pretty shure she dosnt like me . THat being said I love my sister and I love my nieces and I want to spend time with them. Every friday we go over and spend a few hours with the girls while there parents are working.This is aswome but heres the thing . Her duaghters and My son want to have sleep overs with each other. They want to go to the park together and go swimming you know stuff like that. But my sister refuses to let them spend the night with me she says its cuase I have birds and she wont let my son spend the night wont say why. THey can go over ot the other aunties house and spend the night whenever, That auntie can spend the night at there house. As irratateing as this double standerd is for me thats fine im a big girl but my son dosnt understand. At seven he is old enough to know that certain rules like not spending the night or going and doing stuff only applies to us and he dosnt understand. If I ask my sister she gets all defensive or lies and makes exscuses. Like we were gonna do the libary thing today and I asked her if the girls could could .. No she tells me there dad is getting off work early and takeing them swimming . Talked to the girls .. Nope dads at work they have been sitting at the house all day doing nothing. Another thing my sister had a weeks vacation. My son is always begging to spend time with her as well and she allways says she cant cuase she has to work. But they went to the mall and swimming and all sorts of stuff on her vacation but she never spent time with him.
Am I being over senstive here.? Does anyone have any ideas at all. Id like my son to have a better relationship with his aunt and Id like to have a better one with my niecees and I just dont undertand the problem. SHe can let her kids spend the night with there friends in homes she has never been to around people she has never met but not with us. It dosnt make any sense to me at all..
Am I being over senstive here.? Does anyone have any ideas at all. Id like my son to have a better relationship with his aunt and Id like to have a better one with my niecees and I just dont undertand the problem. SHe can let her kids spend the night with there friends in homes she has never been to around people she has never met but not with us. It dosnt make any sense to me at all..