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that baby looks like a woman's personal aid... :eek:
 
So sad..... Don't know how much I'm gonna be on right now.
Don't know much.... The Dr has a bunch of test to run on my wife..... NEVER had to have the thought of life without her.... Yeah I don't feel like much of anything right now.


You are not alone in this. We are here for you and with you.

Just because she had a test with abnormal results does not mean she cannot get better with proper care. Both of you need to take care of yourselves and each other. I'm in the same boat. My husband is fit, he plays hockey 5 or more times per week, but he woke up suffering from chest pains last night that passed before I could convince him to get out of bed and get dressed to go to the ER. I am afraid he may have clots circulating as he took a really bad two hander across the back of his thighs last week and the massive bruises are breaking up. I'm overweight and don't exercise nearly enough, drink a little too much, and drink WAY too much Coke. If I don't watch it I will be dead, or at least useless, which is worse for everyone.

It's not easy to make lifestyle changes, especially with a desk job and a love of good and rich foods. But if nothing else I want to stick around to see my grandchildren that I don't have yet and probably won't for a while. You already have them. Do it for them.
 
You are not alone in this.  We are here for you and with you.

Just because she had a test with abnormal results does not mean she cannot get better with proper care.  Both of you need to take care of yourselves and each other.  I'm in the same boat.  My husband is fit, he plays hockey 5 or more times per week, but he woke up suffering from chest pains last night that passed before I could convince him to get out of bed and get dressed to go to the ER.  I am afraid he may have clots circulating as he took a really bad two hander across the back of his thighs last week and the massive bruises are breaking up.  I'm overweight and don't exercise nearly enough, drink a little too much, and drink WAY too much Coke.  If I don't watch it I will be dead, or at least useless, which is worse for everyone.

It's not easy to make lifestyle changes, especially with a desk job and a love of good and rich foods.  But if nothing else I want to stick around to see my grandchildren that I don't have yet and probably won't for a while.  You already have them.  Do it for them.


:hugs
 
You are not alone in this. We are here for you and with you.

Just because she had a test with abnormal results does not mean she cannot get better with proper care. Both of you need to take care of yourselves and each other. I'm in the same boat. My husband is fit, he plays hockey 5 or more times per week, but he woke up suffering from chest pains last night that passed before I could convince him to get out of bed and get dressed to go to the ER. I am afraid he may have clots circulating as he took a really bad two hander across the back of his thighs last week and the massive bruises are breaking up. I'm overweight and don't exercise nearly enough, drink a little too much, and drink WAY too much Coke. If I don't watch it I will be dead, or at least useless, which is worse for everyone.

It's not easy to make lifestyle changes, especially with a desk job and a love of good and rich foods. But if nothing else I want to stick around to see my grandchildren that I don't have yet and probably won't for a while. You already have them. Do it for them.
Walnut, you have worded very well my sentiments. Thank you ma'am.

I't soften too easy for us to let ourselves go, for whatever reason. Sometimes we need a reminder or kick in the sack to get us thinking about the reasons we are still needed.
 

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