Daughter broke up with boyfriend and I'm the one depressed!

[connie1966]

how did it go with your daughter?

 

[feelinglost]

Well we didn't see her much she is in band and only seen her for 4 minutes we are meeting her to eat but she has friends with her so I guess she is doing that on purpose so I can't ask her questions. She won't tell me what she did or who it was with but it was before she left home. I just hate it all! I am trying to do my best not to judge her and put her down now. I will let you know after we leave here!

 

[connie1966]

Don't ask her anything she's probably embarrassed , how old is she by the way?

 

[feelinglost]

Well she is 18 she is in her freshman year of college

 

[feelinglost]

She works hard and has a full ride accedmic scholarship and some for sports. She knows she has worked hard to get this far. I just worry I loved that boy and knew where they were and I trusted that boy with everything.

 

[feelinglost]

I really do appreciate you taking your time to talk to me!

 

[connie1966]

iv been through it and know how you feel so if I can help in some way it's my pleasure! She's so young don't be to hard on her

 

[feelinglost]

I know that is why I worry she is young! I don't know I knew they were young but he fit in so well and just loved our family and all. I just didn't think she would do that. I am not surprised they broke up it was how fast she did it after she left and then finding this out! I just worry she will mess up her life.

 

[katy1962]

Im really struggling with my sons break up and feel like i have a brick sat on my chest. Have no interest in anything.

 

[connie1966]

Hopefully she won't mess up her life I hope she learns from this, she will probably regret losing him sometime down the line