@LaurenRitz , I went back and looked at the photo you posted on January 9 just before the toe came off, and the swelling looks about the same to me. I looked on the internet for other birds showing swollen tissue above necrotic toes just before and after toes came off, but didn't find any good examples to post here.The foot does look a little puffy which may be normal, hopefully @Allsfairinloveandbugs will chime in with thoughts.
I then went back and looked at my own hen's frostbite injury. Even though the remaining swollen viable tissue Involves her entire shank, I think it is comparable to what you are seeing, including back on January 9 and now.
Swelling 2 days before autoamputation:
Swelling 2 days after autoamputation
Scrolling through more photos, it took several weeks for the swelling to completely go away.
I agree with @Wyorp Rock that your little guy is craving a dust bath. Do loosely cover/wrap his feet while he does so, since dirt will contact his remaining toe tissue. Then unwrap his toes/feet afterward, soak in Epsom salts, and medicate as toes continue to heal. Though risk of infection is overall low, it's much easier to prevent any infection risk than treat it after the fact.