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Wow there are a lot of wonderful thoughts you all have given on this. I never realized how many families there were that didn't teach Santa and the like. After typing up my thoughts, and having that coffee I did realize that there are certain religions that also don't celebrate holidays at all... that's a tough one for me, but there are so many different beliefs.
I also want to say how much I think of those of you who insisted to your children not to tell the other children - no such thing as... sadly my cousin's wife wasn't as nice. Without going into an entirely different topic, she's not very considerate of others and encourage her daughter to teach the other children that what they believed in was wrong. I'll never understand why someone would put such a weight on a child's shoulders. Again, that's a different story.
Even though we don't discourage the Santa, Easter Bunny, Tooth Fairy etc stories, we do celebrate just a little differently:
Christmas: Santa brings some presents, but not all of them are from Santa. Some are from the Nana's and some are from Mommy and Daddy. And that we don't always get what we ask for, but that we should still be thankful.
Tooth Fairy: Miss Fairy has had to be reprimanded once when she forgot to get DD's tooth from under her pillow ... uh... two nights straight. Oops. DH and I were in the middle of a work crunch and just kept forgetting. Bad Mommy & Daddy!! Bad!!! So DD suggested that we write Miss Fairy's Boss (ever see The Santa Clause with Mother Nature running the show... she was the boss we were writing to) and thank goodness that did the trick - the Tooth Fairy has been prompt ever since.
Halloween: By far this is mine and DH's favorite holiday. We absolutely love dressing up, decorating the house and giving the kids a little run for their money. We do not try and scare the younger kids - we don't want to scar them for life. When DD has returned from her trick or treating we will let her pick out a few of her very favorite pieces of candy. After a thorough inspection, we'll let her have it - doled out, not all at once. And then we let her "trade in" the rest of the candy for a movie or something small and special. A reward for choosing the healthier option.
Easter Bunny: This year we decided (because again, we're not candy fans) to stop the Easter baskets altogether and make the Easter Bunny all about hiding eggs. So we left her very first set of decorated real eggs (vs. the plastic ones) out for EB and then she had a blast finding them the next morning. Later in the day we go to the Nana's house where we have a nice dinner and then force all of my cousins (God bless 'em) to go hide the eggs again so DD can hunt for them. We all really had fun this year.
Anyways, that's what we do. Thanks again all for the well presented opinions and peaceful discussion - it's very interesting!
I also want to say how much I think of those of you who insisted to your children not to tell the other children - no such thing as... sadly my cousin's wife wasn't as nice. Without going into an entirely different topic, she's not very considerate of others and encourage her daughter to teach the other children that what they believed in was wrong. I'll never understand why someone would put such a weight on a child's shoulders. Again, that's a different story.
Even though we don't discourage the Santa, Easter Bunny, Tooth Fairy etc stories, we do celebrate just a little differently:
Christmas: Santa brings some presents, but not all of them are from Santa. Some are from the Nana's and some are from Mommy and Daddy. And that we don't always get what we ask for, but that we should still be thankful.
Tooth Fairy: Miss Fairy has had to be reprimanded once when she forgot to get DD's tooth from under her pillow ... uh... two nights straight. Oops. DH and I were in the middle of a work crunch and just kept forgetting. Bad Mommy & Daddy!! Bad!!! So DD suggested that we write Miss Fairy's Boss (ever see The Santa Clause with Mother Nature running the show... she was the boss we were writing to) and thank goodness that did the trick - the Tooth Fairy has been prompt ever since.
Halloween: By far this is mine and DH's favorite holiday. We absolutely love dressing up, decorating the house and giving the kids a little run for their money. We do not try and scare the younger kids - we don't want to scar them for life. When DD has returned from her trick or treating we will let her pick out a few of her very favorite pieces of candy. After a thorough inspection, we'll let her have it - doled out, not all at once. And then we let her "trade in" the rest of the candy for a movie or something small and special. A reward for choosing the healthier option.
Easter Bunny: This year we decided (because again, we're not candy fans) to stop the Easter baskets altogether and make the Easter Bunny all about hiding eggs. So we left her very first set of decorated real eggs (vs. the plastic ones) out for EB and then she had a blast finding them the next morning. Later in the day we go to the Nana's house where we have a nice dinner and then force all of my cousins (God bless 'em) to go hide the eggs again so DD can hunt for them. We all really had fun this year.
Anyways, that's what we do. Thanks again all for the well presented opinions and peaceful discussion - it's very interesting!