I agree. It is socially hard to maneuver some situations. For instance, when asked to go to lunch I might reply that I can't afford it. It is the truth and I say it in a good natured way, but it seems to make people feel that they should offer to pay my way. I don't want them to pay my way. And they don't seem to want to do an alternative such as - we pack a lunch or we cook together. Sigh.
I now NEVER say I cannot afford to go out. But then it leaves people thinking I just don't want to go with them. sigh again.
I now NEVER say I cannot afford to go out. But then it leaves people thinking I just don't want to go with them. sigh again.