Hi, Maple, chiming in late to say good luck! With that millstone gone from around your neck life gets much easier. When my divorce was final I took those stupid "souvenir glasses" from the wedding (young and tacky, what can I say) and gleefully smashed them to smithereens against some huge rocks with my best friend. Each one got smashed as we said one thing I was free of. It was fantastic! Totally worth the mess and cleanup.
When your decree is in your hand, I recommend something like that! Best to you and your girls.
honestly, I think I'd have someone decorate HIS car (inside) with a huge pile of hot, steaming ..... shi....stufffff! With a little note that says you're no longer gonna take his stuff anymore and he can have all that he gave you back! But thats just me!