We hatch banties from eggs and they've become VERY tame. Happy to sit on shoulder (or head) or lap. They'll fly to shoulder (or head) on their own. We've also had banty hens that naturally became very friendly on they're own and became house visitors. Some birds poo jelly beans and some poo...
I have an Orpington roo and 2 banty roos. They're all noisy. I bought White Rocks and Dark Cornish this year to play with breeding my own Cornish cross. The White Rock roos are friendly and relatively quiet. The Cornish roos are SILENT so far (6 months + old). I'd suggest either but with the...