Wow! I’d be ticked… maybe show her the video and ask what her intentions were. Make her explain herself. The embarrassment will probably stop the problem.
We ordered female partridge Chanteclers from Hoovers last summer through a Runnings store since we only wanted 6 chicks. Apparently partridge color wasn’t hatching so they changed the order to Buff Chanteclers instead without letting anyone know. Of the 6 we got one male and one Buff Orpington...