My first tom, an Eastern Wild, was friendly.
2nd was a Bourbon Red cross, also friendly.
3rd was a Royal Palm & friendly.
4th, 5th, &6th were Blue Slates, All were as mean as striped spiders.
7th is another Royal palm & is shy, but friendly.
My 2 Eastern wild toms were very tame & loved attention.
My 3 Blue Slate toms were meaner than a striped spider.
My 2 Royal Palm toms are skiddish, but show no agression.
I don't know if breed has anything to do with it, but in my case, it seems possible.
Oh yeah, 1 Burbon Red cross was ok, but...