Our realtor was the same way! We had to hound him to get any updates and he'd nonchalantly mention very important things that we were like 'why was this not disclosed asap?!' Argh! We even fired a few realtors before this guy and he was the best lol. We had one tell us we had 10 min to look at...
This is a great thread. We just bought 22 acres and are in the process of selling our house in the city. Big drama. I totally sympathize with everyone in similar situations. These buyers are great but the realator is horrible! Same situation when we were buying! Argh!