It was a wise choice not to try with a 9mm. You'd have been unlikely to connect at anything over 15 feet, given how upset you were. And the noise would have alarmed your neighbors, who might have called out the local Constable. Best to be discreet and plan your revenge...
If neighbors are a concern, choose Aguilar subsonic ammo. It makes much less noise, but hits very hard for a 22. Be CERTAIN that your bullets stay on your property, whether you hit or miss.
Of course, I'm assuming that you have the legal right to discharge a firearm on your property. Here in...