I hope this doesn't sound disrespectful. But reading through your posts Chicken Little & Mommad, I think you both grew to really like the boyfriends - I don't mean in bad way but, maybe your daughters don't feel as strongly about them as you do.
To you maybe they seem like ideal husband...
Makala glad the family accepted you. I've been on the end of a mortifying meet too - guys never tell what they are planning and then bang, you walk into something like that.
In my case he(divorced 8 years) had older kids and the girl sniffed at me like she was smelling something and said...