I feel your pain I've got 5 toms and 2 hens in the same pen. 6 of them are brothers and sisters and one is from a diffrent clutch. This is my first time raising turkeys but I've been a turkey hunter for 20 years and have witnessed these peaking order rituals in the wild. But from my experiences...
I too had a tom that was fighting with a hen, didnt witness it but when I got home to feed and water them she had a bloody snood and marks on her face. There was a few marks on my slate Toms face and he was still trying to hover over her and bully her around.
I can always tell which have been...