So Freaking Mad... Cannot Even Get It Together... Some People Can Just Be So... *Warning, Rant Alert

Chickenfan4life

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Last year I was picking a puppy from my friend's dog's litter. The one I wanted, a healthy white pup with soft white fur and blue eyes, I was due to pick. But when I found out that my friend's daughter in law wanted that pup as a pet for her newborn, things looked bleak. I was really mad because no one believe me when I said that a dog would not be a pet for a newborn baby!

Well, that didn't help and they took the pup I wanted. The other puppies that I liked were also promised to someone else, and, in the end, I was left with the last pup in the litter. And she was the last one in the litter for a reason: she had obvious behavioral issues! Regardless of whether I wanted the pup, she was adopted.

It wasn't until she grew into a dog that my parents realized that I was right; that she really did have behavior problems! And that's about when I learned something horrible: the pup I'd wanted, the pup I had a name picked for and everything, had been given away by the people who took him because they couldn't keep him and the baby!!!!!!!

Was I informed that they didn't want him? HECK NO! Now I am stuck with a dog that is practically a spaz! I just can't win... If a person would just listen to me/my opinion ONCE, things would be different, and I wouldn't be stuck in a situation where my first dog is a dog that hates me, and everyone else hates her.

Yes, I have tried training her problems out. I have even sought out professional help! IT DOESN'T HELP!!! Everyone says she cannot be trained! The dog I would have gotten was a white DachshundXMaltese with blue eyes and a red nose. He was not deaf, not blind, smart, sweet, and would follow me everywhere!

I am so freaking mad right now... I just need sympathy because everyone else tells me to move on or shut up... Rant over...
 
Sometimes we simply need to rant and have someone actually listen even if there isn't a darn thing we can do about it. (Hug) we are here for you...rant away.
 
I'm sorry Hannah...
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you've been angry over a year about it? there are two possibilities: one is get rid of the poor dog to someone that ma;ybe she would get along with and/would want her 2/ start trying to find what u can do to work with her ...not sure what prof. help u got but sometimes a subconcious attitude carries over and the animal ALWAYS KNOWS.... and sometimes there just isnt 'chemistry . but if u are angry over something like this for a year, what happens when more , well, horrible things or wrong things happen? sorry, i empathize , life is a bummer, but sometimes u have to step back, take stock and see the whole situation. people who dont listen to you have already made up their minds, and dont want to listen, so dont waste words on them. second, if you want something, its not selfish to take it even if its the last dress, or puppy or necklace. its not food, and no one is starving cause u took the last piece of bread. if u do give something up for someone else, it shoudl be wiht a full heart, no regrets. anyhow, why cant the dog be trained. what does being a 'spaz' mean (sorry , out of coutnry forever, so not up on english speaking slang)? dogs, just like childnren, have to have the matching training. not all training matches the dog. not all dogs will fetch, sit and stay or search. some are just ment to hang around and look good and bark , but even that can be worked with. maybe start a separate thread /post about dog issues, and someone can help? sorry computer not letting me do enters for paragraphs (issues with multi language keyboards)...OR get an other dog, one that you really want, and you choose regardless.
 

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