Unfortunately, you are but one of many thousands of people who are getting screwed by banks and if you think you are the only one frustrated by the arrogance of these banks, then think again. I am handleing a foreclosure matter on a pro bono basis for a Mexican couple who bought their house in 1992 and for 18 years without fail they made every mortgage payment, until, like you, due to a family emergency they missed two payments. They had been in contact with the bank the whole time and said they would make up the payments but before they could the bank filed a foreclosure action even though they had begun making the payments again and were prepared to make up the late payments. They tried everything in their means to cure the default and get reinstated and this went on now for three years and during all that time the bank has refused to even talk. I took over their case becasue they were getting hit by not only the bank and their lawyers, but also by their own lawyers who just charged them a monthly fee and did nothing. When I took over the case they had paid over $5000 in legal fees alone. Keep in mind that this was not a loan that was under water as the loan balance was only $24000 at the time the foreclosue started and the house is valued at $75000. The bank has now added on more then $28000 in fees and costs. Also, keep in mind that over the many years that they paid their mortgage and reduced the principal they also paid to the bank over $38,000 in interest alone. That sum is more then the original loan amount. On Monday morning, December 3rd I am going to a final trial on this matter and I can in no way predict what will happen but I will be embarrased for my profession if I do not win. The bank has been arrogant throughout. So much so that every attempt I have made to resolve the matter has gone unanswered and ignored. These banks and the lawyer mills that represent them in these foreclosures are the true terrorist in this country and to the OP I really hope that you have better luck in finding someone who can resolve your situation. The bank on the other side in this matter is Bank of America and its name alone is an insult to this country.