I'm Having A Bad Day. Please Talk To Me!!

[kyla]

I would really like someone to talk to. I really need to be put in a good mood....Please help!!

 

[marianne7]

Hi, from England (Gloucestershire), whats put you in a bad mood ?

 

[kyla]

My boyfriend. He was always urging me last year to go off school campus and this year I did. I've been doing it for a couple of weeks and we've been having alone time. But when the teacher/C4 instructor at our school that if people who didn't have permission to go off campus continue to go off campus open lunch will be shut down. Now all of a sudden, he tells me not to go off campus with him. And that hurt. We write poems for each other. I'm going to talk to him about it, but I'm still hurt....I don't want to lose him....

I'm from Nashville Indiana

 

[marianne7]

My boyfriend. He was always urging me last year to go off school campus and this year I did. I've been doing it for a couple of weeks and we've been having alone time. But when the teacher/C4 instructor at our school that if people who didn't have permission to go off campus continue to go off campus open lunch will be shut down. Now all of a sudden, he tells me not to go off campus with him. And that hurt. We write poems for each other. I'm going to talk to him about it, but I'm still hurt....I don't want to lose him....

I'm from Nashville Indiana

Hey Kyla, men can be really insensitive....he may not have meant to hurt you, I think you should do what you said, and talk it out with him, so don't upset yourself...I'm sure you guys can sort this out...

 

[Bunnylady]

Let me ask you a question. Do either of you have permission to go off campus during lunch time?


If the answer to that question is "no," then all I can say is, any guy that encourages you to break the rules to spend "alone time" with him is seriously bad news. A person who really cares about you isn't going to pressure you to do anything that will get you into trouble.

 

[caspernc]

Let me ask you a question. Do either of you have permission to go off campus during lunch time?


If the answer to that question is "no," then all I can say is, any guy that encourages you to break the rules to spend "alone time" with him is seriously bad news. A person who really cares about you isn't going to pressure you to do anything that will get you into trouble.

X2 ! do your parents know this young man? If not, bring him home and you can sit in the yard and talk until you are blue in the face. In the house , you need to make parent talk, that I know is different. Let them trust him, and that will gooooooooo soooooo far.

 

[kyla]

Thanks everybody!! I appreciate y'alls advice. We worked it out yesterday. I am going to have him meet my parents.

 

[caspernc]

Keep us uptodate. i love a maybe love story, even if you deside it was, is a mistake, or a life time of happyness! I hope you do find a friend in him.

 

[kyla]

Well we've made up. Last year and this year we both realized that we can't be 'just friends' it doesn't work for either of us, so we are going to be together until school ends and we go our seperate ways. Below is a poem he wrote for me:


Your love makes me grow stronger
My heart beats for you and longs for you still
You take my breath with whey word from your sweet lips
You make me laugh when I feel like crying your smile holds me together you laugh I laugh you cry I cry I will be forever by your side
The flowers bloom and the seasons change but my love never will
You stay I go but we are always so near
We stay connected and close through the hard times and sometimes we are friend and others we are more much more
The time is different and we will soon depart how I do not know but our love will be closed so I will hang on to what little there is left and ride with you off into the sunset and leave all our troubles behind for one more day.


I about cried tears of happiness. Because I have never been moved by a poem before!!

 

[kyla]

Someone please talk to me. I'm about to cry tears of sadness.