I trust you've calibrated your instruments so you know what you are dealing with. Due to manufacturing tolerances, thermometers and hygrometers can be off. I don't worry about my hugrometer being spot one, but the thermometer needs to be. If you are truly getting 99.7 in a forced air model, you are doing great. If it is a still air model, that depends on where you are taking the temperature. In a still air, the temperature can vary quite a bit based on elevation. Hovabator incubators come in both still air and forced air versions. I don't know which one you have.
The reason you get so many different opinions is that different humidities work for different ones of us. Some people have tried the dry humidity method and get really improved results. Some have tried it and got none to hatch. But the same is true for people trying to keep it at other specific humidities. Due to our each unique circumstances, different things work for different ones of us on humidity. There is no one right answer for all of us. I wish there were. It would take some worry and uncertainty away. But there can be some trial and error involved in getting it right for you.
The reason you are concerned about humidity is that you want the eggs to lose a certain amount of moisture during the incubation process. Some people weigh their eggs to keep track of how much moisture they are losing so they can adjust the humidity to correct it. Some people candle and see how much the air sac is growing. Many of us do neither but just try it.
I have the Hovabator 1588, which is a forced air model. When I got it, I read the instructions. They said to fill the center reservoir only during incubation and then fill other certain reservoirs during lockdown. The instructions also said to not use valuable eggs the first try, but do a test run first. I tried what they suggested and got a pretty good hatch, so I've kept doing that. Sometimes my humidity runs 42%, sometimes closer to 50%, depending in what time of year I incubate. I have not noticed a lot of difference in the hatch rate. I don't consider humidity an exact science, but one where you just need to be pretty close. I use my hygrometer more to tell me when I need to add water than worrying about the exact humidity in there.
What I suggest is that you settle on a specific method or humidity and try that. Try to be pretty consistent throughout the incubation. Then analyze the results and see if you need to adjust. If you bounce all over the place during incubation, how will you know what to adjust next time? I agree that if you were getting water droplets forming, it was too high and needed to come down. I think that was a move in the right direction. I wish I could tell you exactly where to go with humidity, but I can't.