Completely understood, my mom now lives with my bed ridden grandma with moms 5cats.Its heartbreaking what they have done to everything, a once beautiful house (no indoor pets) now is coated in fur,and smells like a giant turd.All of granny's homemade quilts, crafts,and dolls destroyed. Mom is nose blind and is in denial and is quick to defend them,now its a dread for any family to visit poor granny,don't get me wrong,I am an animal lover but all mine live wonderful lives OUTSIDE, I tried to suggest that maybe hers would enjoy fresh air for once ,but heard 'not my precious babies'.