My husband is addicted to hatching... make it stop! (long and whiney)

Mojo Chick'n

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Ok slight rant here....

I adore my hubby, he is the best, but sometimes...

I talked him into chickens, I talked him into an incubator (over MUCH protesting), I talked him into building me more coops (not as much protesting, he likes to build stuff) - all along he says "I'm doing this cause it makes you happy, dear, They are YOUR chickens, I just build the coops."

Ok, so tell me why then, can I not get rid of THAT chicken, because she's his Mowing Buddy. And I can get rid of THAT chicken, because she is pretty. Oh, and that Big Rooster down in the lower coop (I have four coops, at this point) well, he's a great roo, and a good breeder, you need that one.

He can keep his mowing buddy and the pretty chicken who flirts with him, but... he needs to stop!! Seriously, I have 4 incubators now - one is just for hatching, so we can do staggered hatches.
Great!!! Yeah!! Ok, now when do we get to turn that darn things off??!!

I have 180+ chicks at the moment - all of them around three weeks old, and I have 5 who just hatched today and probably another 40 eggs to go yet (hatching as we speak).

Yes, we sell chicks and chickens, and we sell eating eggs... But, I need to downsize. I also need to convince the man that winter is gonna be here, people are not gonna buy as many chickens then, and I'm gonna be stuck with over 150 extra chickens that I will have to feed and house all winter long. Add in the ones he wants to hatch this winter from my breeder flocks - to get a jump start on spring sales (not a bad idea, but they will have to live inside with us a lot longer than summer chicks) and I am wondering where I'm gonna put all these chickens.

I want to downsize to the "yard candy flock", and my three breeder flocks, and the chicks that I have NOW for selling chickens. I don't need to hatch anymore chicks right now. (did I mention I also have 60 quail babies and 130 more quail eggs in the incubator?). I also have 5 bottle baby calves - so you know that takes some time doing chores.

Meri needs a break.

I finally get him to agree that I am making sense and we need to downsize for winter. I tell him that I do not want to build any more coops - I want to make do with what coops I have and work within that space frame. He agrees, "great idea, Hon." so, last night, after I relax and get all happy figuring out how to move everyone around, he gets this look on his face...

Well, you don't want to get rid of any chickens yet, you might want that big rooster to breed some more, for eggs, when you run out of chicks (umm, over 250 by the time they all hatch, I won't run out that fast). He says he'd be hard to replace - and he is right, that rooster is lovely and big and a great breeding roo - but if I get rid of his hens, who am I gonna breed him with? What do I need with a rooster who is all alone?

I would put him with the yard candy flock, but I already have a roo in there, a fantastic rooster, who is not going anywhere. The two roos do not get along at all - so he can't go there.

I honestly believe that he intends to keep those incubators all filled and running all year round without a break.

I am ready to hide the things at this point.

eta to add more ranting....
I want to get down to my breeder flocks because I want to concentrate on making those flocks GOOD flocks, perhaps even Fantastic flocks - not just hatching whatever pops out of an egg. Is that a Bad thing???

meri
 
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Darlin, you have the hubby most of us DREAM of, lol! Just kidding, I can see your point. It is nice that he both enjoys and supports your hobby though. Maybe you could suggest that if he wants to keep all those "extra" chicks/chickens that he could also clean their pens and help out with care a bit more? Good luck on getting an addict some real help around HERE!
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yeah, I figured I was asking the enablers for help
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I just needed to dump somewhere. I do love that he is into the chickens, now. I just wish he'd listen to reason and stop hatching every egg that he finds.

I do have a seperate room that is just the Hatching/Brooder Room - but I seriously need to gut the thing and clean it from top to bottom (you know how dusty those chicks get) I can't do that with the incubators running all the time, and chicks in bins all around the room.

I guess I just feel overwhelmed and need to cut back on the babies - even if it's just for a month or two.

meri
 
Make him deal with the chores associated with hatching. Hatching is fun. Brooding, not so fun. So tell him if he continues to hatch, he can take care of them himself, and do the selling. Or just start hiding incubators

I have a lot of animals. But I do not make my husband take care of them. He does not care for most of them. So if I give it life or bring it home, I take care of it.
 
What a great hubby! Although it does sound like he has a problem
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They should make a section on this forum for people like us, call it Chicks Anonymous... But then again, who on this board would be able to offer the counseling????!!!!!
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I think it's a wonderful idea to make your flock better - that is never a bad thing! Maybe you could sell 1 or 2 of the incubators, and have the other 2 - 1 for your birds and 1 for his. That would limit him somewhat
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Also, good idea to have him help out with all the care that goes into those babies!

Another thing you could try would be to show him the total cost of feed per month... That might slow him down a bit
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Good luck!
 
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My hubby is one of those too; I can have whatever I want, but I have to care for it and maintain everything. He will happily build fences, enclosures, buildings, whatever I want, but those babies are MINE to lug food and water to AND to clean up after. LOL, well he IS enjoying the chicken adventure alot more than any other thing I have done. And, he brags about them to friends. He even took pics of our first broody hatch and sent them around to all his manly buddies ( got crap for it too, lol ). He definitely has his favorites, and even remembers most of their names. But, he also knows that barring any heavy lifting etc that I do all of the work/chores involved with keeping the chickens. I have told him that since I have become so "taken" with Big Boy and his LB girls that I am planning to sell all the various pullets that we got this year next spring to make room for the Light Brahma babies I have or am hatching out this fall. In the spring they should be laying and can replace our pullets. He is all for it. Even though there are a few of those kiddos that he really likes. I am new this year to chickens and still figuring out what breeds etc I really like and whatnot. I have plans to buy more blue/green egg layers and have a nice flock of those guys. And, there's the silkies. He supports me in all of it - even the culling and rehoming. I don't think he would ever allow me to place the Big Boy though, and his Brahmas aren't going ANYWHERE!
 
I've actually been keeping a journal this year - all expenses and sales go into the journal, so I can tell exactly how I did each month. (actually I have a few journals
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one for poultry, one for cows, a new one for the breeder flocks and hatching from them...)

I'd go down to two bators,but I also have the quail and ducks and geese
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so in reality, I need all the bators - I just don't need them all the time. For instance, I'm done with ducks and geese for the year - or so I thought, til my call duck decided to go broody and set on eggs in the calf pens!! I have her eggs in the bator, now, and she is back in the duck pen with everyone else.

I've done pretty well this year, so far. I've sold enough chickens and eating eggs to pay for the poultry feed and the donkey feed (I have 8 donkeys) and have some leftover for other stuff (mostly animal stuff, bedding, more incubators
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and the like.) So, my "hobby" is paying for itself which is a good thing.

I just want to refine it a bit, and have a few really special breeding flocks and concentrate on those.
Hubby figures if a rooster and a hen get together, then the egg needs to be hatched.

He continued to protest that they were MY chickens, right up until this summer, when I finally said that if they were MY chickens, then I get to spend all the money from them on Myself, right?
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plus, the little comments on the Mowing buddy, etc... and the times I would catch him out there having a conversation with George (my yard candy roo) or the geese.

He doesn't protest anymore that they are simply MY chickens
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Mojo Chick'n :

I do have a seperate room that is just the Hatching/Brooder Room - but I seriously need to gut the thing and clean it from top to bottom (you know how dusty those chicks get) I can't do that with the incubators running all the time, and chicks in bins all around the room.

I guess I just feel overwhelmed and need to cut back on the babies - even if it's just for a month or two.

meri

I have had full brooders since April and the room they are in looks like a disaster. There is dust everywhere, hanging down off of everything in big strands; plus, often chicks get out of the brooder and walk around and so there is poo everywhere; and I just can't wait to stop brooding so that I can CLEAN that room. I can feel your pain. I love baby chicks but I want it to stop, at least for a while. Plus, it would be nice to have while of just taking care of the dog and the outside animals without having to take care of the brooder babies too. I work full time - it's a burden.​
 
Um are you sure you're at the right forum? I mean.. you're asking us? to tell your husband to stop hatching eggs and get rid of chickens.
 

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