Need to rant!

BeccaGore

In the Brooder
5 Years
Nov 29, 2014
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So this weekend we got an extremely short notice call from my husbands mother telling us the his sisters are headed to her house in OK (we live in IL,) and that she is really hoping for us to be there as well, that night! So after many phone calls, and trying to tell his mother that we are very short for money since we have a lot tied up this week in supplies for building more rabbit hutches, dental work, mortgage, and whatnot. We finally decide at that we're going. I had an hour to pack for myself, my husband, and our daughter, plus snacks, drinks, maps, and things for my daughter to keep to entertained during the drive. After all of that was done I ran to the neighbors to ask his daughter who usually helps with the rabbits, and chickens while we're gone if she could just feed, and water the rabbits while we were gone, because I had set a TON of extra food, and water in the coop for the chickens. She said she had a horse show that she was going to so I ran to our other neighbors, and his wife said she would watch the rabbits for us. So I set their hay, and pellets buy the garage door with a note saying fill bowls with pellets, and give each rabbit 2 handfuls of hay.

We set off on a long long drive being that we driving very late at night already. We get to his parents, and crash as soon as we get there, because we had finally pulled in at 7AM! O.O Friday goes by without a word from our neighbor so we assume everything is just fine. Saturday afternoon comes, and I get this text saying OMG OMG OMG the chickens! What do I do, you didn't leave out ANY food for me to give to them, what do I do?! I sent back, I gave them a lot of extra food, and water before we left, so they are okay which is why I didn't mention that you needed to do anything for them. If you'd like there's a pile of weeds I cut from the garden in the backyard. You can toss those in there, and just check that they still have water. She texts me back a few hours later that she gave them the weeds, and they just looked at her. (They always do that to me, but they eat it as soon as I look away, lol.) Which I told her that they will eat them, we half free range them so some days they get their grains, and others they get grass/weeds. She said nothing for the rest of the trip.

We left OK Sunday around 11AM, and got home by 7PM. It was still pretty much daylight out so I got the Veggies from the gardens, made my rounds with checking the animals. My husband, and I decided we would take her 2 dozen eggs as a thank you. When we get to her house, and offer her the eggs. She looks at us, and says, oh no. I do not want those. There is chicken **** in your coop, and I saw a few eggs that had poop on them in the nest boxes. I just left them there. I'm not touching that! My jaw hit the floor. She has bought a lot of eggs from us in the past. I looked at her, and said. Where exactly do you think the eggs comes from?! The chickens ***!! There's bound to be a bit of poo on a few of them! Have you ever gotten an egg out of my carton that had **** on it?! No? That's because/why you wash your eggs, before you give them to people! Then she goes on to tell me that the chickens knocked a few of their water buckets off their chains, and there was ****/dirt on the buckets she didn't know which, but she didn't touch that either, but she did go back to her house, and get a bag of dog food that she won't give her to dog, and gave it to the chickens, because she felt the weeds, and grass wasn't enough.

By this point I was doing I was doing all that I could not to lose it. Yes, there is **** in the coop. CHICKENS **** EVERYWHERE!! That's just what they do! Then she goes on to say, well can't you put a nice hardwood floor in the coop? I told her that there's no sense in it, because it's just going to get ruined in a week. I told her, I do a big clean out 2-3 times a year. Meaning I scrape the run down to the dirt, and toss the waste in the compost pile, then I soak everything, and scrub it down with very mild bleach water. She starts to tell me about how only doing it that way is very poor, and cruel living conditions for my chickens. I told her that she needs to go look up how the chickens live that produce eggs for grocery stores, and then she come say something to me about how my chickens.
 
Don't worry, I need to rant sometimes too.

That does sound frustrating. A lot of people don't understand what its really like with animals. Its not the perfect clean place you see in photographs. They would have thought that our ferrets were living in awful conditions because of how often they went to the bathroom all over the floor and how badly it smelled. You could clean every day and it would still be messy in the corners.

I'm sure you take great care of your chickens.

Best of luck to you and your flock (and rabbits)!
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when she starts with the poop and germs bit - just cover your ears and loudly chant 'LA LA LALA LA LA' it also helps if you can roll your eyes back in your head." That is the kindest way to tell her "shut up!"
 
Obviously your neighbor had never see a chicken coop, much less taken care of one. The next time she says something negative to you about it, just tell here she's fired as your vacation replacement. :eek:) Seriously though, I've always done a walk through ahead of time with a couple of friends or neighbors as well as leaving a detailed set of printed instructions so they would know exactly what they were getting into and what to do when they had to take care of our flock for us while we were away. At least up to this point, it's always worked well.
 
I wonder if all her experience has been the "pretty" coops shown on Pinterest with the curtains and chandeliers.

That sucks :(
 
Shoot, my granddaughter started taking care of my chickens entirely by herself when we were out of town and she was only 8 years old! Did a fantastic job, too! Now she's a big 9 year old, and she knows exactly what to do, how to do it, and when to do it. If a little chicken poop doesn't faze her, if she's old enough to understand that critters aren't always immaculate and be fine with it, your neighbor is certainly old enough to get it. I think it was more work than she expected or was willing to handle, and being this way allows her to make sure she's never asked again. Her loss, your chickens' gain!
 
It's true. My grandparents always had chickens, ducks, geese, and I grew up helping with them! I was used to the poop, and the not glory parts of having chickens. I mean coops, and chickens get dirty. I thought it was normal. Get up every morning. Put on your rubber boots, and feed, and water them. She acted as though it was this horrific scene!! She's in her late 40's, and I'm only 26 years old. She said she went home, and peeled off her clothes, put them in the wash, then washed the washer! O.O I am in there everyday. I know for a fact that if you're not rolling on the ground or sticking your hands all over the boxes. You are NOT going to get poop all over you!
 
I confess. I'd get poop on me. But that's cause this happens:

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Rinse it off soap it off a bit then into the washing machine with the bleach alternative stuff.

Honestly.
 
When I told my friends I got chickens everyone kept saying poop,poop & more poop and other comments about how much they poop. Well after having horses for about 30 years I don't think it's that bad.
The first time I had my sister-in-law take care of my 2 horses years ago she exclaimed "why on earth would anyone want a horse".
Poop doesn't seem to bother me it's just part of the package.
 

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