Well, this afternoon will be day 22. I tossed one of the eggs, but the rest are still in there. (forever the optimist?)
Thanks for your replies. It's lonely out here in failure land.
I do have a still air. and it is homemade. and we are totally rookies. I asked around for a fan, after they started incubating and I saw that the temps would not stay stable....but by the time I found one, we were too far down this road.
Thanks for explaining it so nicely, I understand about not opening the incubator once I stop turning them, but I never dreamed there was going to be anything growing in there with all the trouble we've had. I didn't think it would make any difference....so I was shocked when I felt one move! By then, it was too late....damage done.
Next time, if we do a next time, I will know to expect the unexpected.
My husband is getting into it now. And has ideas for what we can do differently. You would think he had been reading miss prissy's instructions
So, the eggs aren't doing anything right now. The temps and humidity were low during the first 18 days, so I figured they might be slow, so I am still giving them a few more days. Just in case.
Again, thanks for your replies. I needed them.