Rescue rant (parrot)

BorderKelpie

Songster
10 Years
Mar 1, 2009
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outside Dallas
Ok, some of you may remember a thread I posted several weeks ago about the macaws I picked up as a rescue/rehome situation that the rescue group tried to get me to breed. Well, I thought I had that stopped. I have been getting phones calls about every other day. Apparantly even though I politely declined adopting two more macaws due to financial and health reasons - they found yet another macaw needing a home. I again politely explained that I am unable: no more room, no more money, two more surgeries in my near future, yadda, yadda, yadda. I am now getting daily phone calls - 'she's a real sweetie, you'll love her - you can breed her to the one you already have'?!?!?!?! You mean my nudist? (he's a plucker). I give up - my account is now overdrawn, I still owe over $7,000 for my emergency surgery last Christmas, I have NO room for another cage, period. In the past 12-14 months, this club has talked me into taking 11 cockatiels, 1 Quaker Parrot and two macaws (with issues). When does it quit? I am afraid to answer my phone anymore. I want to help, but my home is actually starting to look like those hoarders you hear about on the news. There is no way I can properly care for all the birds out there needing homes. Something has to give. What can I do? At this point, I am afraid that I will end up on the news as one of those hoarders. I adore my birds, I really do. But this is nuts.
 
A resue group that wants you to breed????
Sounds like they need to work with other Avian rescue groups cause they cant send all the birds to one person it will put the birds back into a bad situation.....
 
This is going to sound terrible, but I have adopted so many and I love them, I do. But, now I realize that I will never get the bird I actually always really wanted. I don't blame these guys and I will care for them for as long as I am able (hopefully, at least 30 more years and my DDs have told me they will look after them when I no longer can, but...)
Gawd, I sound so petty, don't I? I joined that club with the thought that, Heaven forbid, I am unable to care for my birds, that they would be able to place them for me. I guess that was a stupid move on my part. I thought I was being responsible. Oops.
So long as my DDs will help me, I guess we'll work it out somehow. It's just frustrating. After my accident last year, I realize that anything can happen. What happens to my animals if something else happens to me?
 
I do feel for you. You are obviously a giving person. When people won't take no for an answer, you just need to say it again, loudly!
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Seriously, though: How rude of them!
However, if you are not stating a firm - "no" - they may think you are on the fence with regard to taking more birds.
If you feel that this person is being pushy, you do need to say so. I would suggest that you say, "I feel like you are trying to push me into taking on more birds and I will not take even one more. Please don't ask again."
 

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