I'm gonna guess that (according to their combs and wings), 1 is a pullet, 2 is a cockerel, 3 is a pullet, and 4 is a pullet, but I'm not 100% positive.
No, you can't sex a 4 week old chick by the wings. You may be able to tell by the comb. Number 2 looks to be the only likely suspect for now but 4 weeks is still rather young. Post updated pics in another 2-4 weeks.