Very confusing!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[chookguy]

I have no idea if this silkie bantam is a boy or a girl. Please help me figure this out so this stress can get out of my head.
It is 16 weeks old

 

[chookguy]

I'm going to tell you there are no waddles. Because ya can't see

 

[howfunkyisurchicken]

It looks like a very pretty non bearded pullet to me. Some close up pics of the comb and back of the crest would help though.