CarolinaHen, I know how silly I must sound. I've wanted chickens for so many years, and I guess I thought they'd respond to kindness like we humans do. I just went to the coop and locked up the pop door and gave the three girls a quick pet and left. I'm going to try to re-home two of these young cockerels before I figure out if I've ruined them or not. I'll just keep whichever one is left. I never would have guessed that snuggling a cockerel would make him hate me in the end. Am I the only one this dumb?
You don't sound silly at all. I thought that if I cuddled my cockerels they would be cuddly roosters too. We all have to learn and this is a very non-confrontational board to learn on I talk to my birds all the time and give them way more attention than most people I know with birds. I adore them! I just had to learn how to treat the guys differently. I still cuddle with my big Brahma boys. They love to lay on their back in my lap for a belly rub, but their attention comes on my terms. I pick them up when I want and put them down when I want. It's my decision, not theirs. They also must get out of my way when I walk by.
I'm just glad I learned how not to treat cockerels with bantam roosters and not a Brahma. I can't imagine the damage one of my big boys would do if they came at me like the bantam boys did.