Hi Yankr1....and of course all checking in here. Yeah what a topic. It feels so normalizing to find people going through the same thing. I wish there was a way to Pvt msg on this app only because as I know we feel the same about talking to local in person friends and family (basically I won’t) I’m fearful of somehow my d finding this. I guess it’s a needle in a haystack... but hey we’re we’re sad and aline feeling such that we found it! Lol.Hi Yankr1!! Oh how happy I am to see your notes. I’m about to start in a zoom class but I will be writing to you later this eve. It’s all I have as well.... my heart is broken and sad to say the least.
I’m looking forward to a quiet moment to read and reply and let it out.
write all you want. I will reply. I get it 100%.
you asked how long. It pains me to say. Just about a year
I miss him beyond words. Their relationship at this point is riddled with miscommunications and misunderstandings. I feel if I could sit them both down and act like a mediator.... or someone to help them hear each other they’d work it out. He misses and loves her. He tells me this. She says less and less and feels like I like I take his side. I’ve made so many mistakes over the last months trying to be respectful of my d but it’s only hurt things more.
I can go on for hours. What is your story? How long has it been? What happened. It’s healing to talk and to listen. So go for it.