You sound like my parents! They've adopted four kids already, and are fostering with the intent to adopt two more. They are all Hispanic, while my parents are as white as the sandy beaches of Bora Bora. My eldest daughter is half Hispanic, my middle daughter is a quarter Hispanic and a quarter Sicilian, so both are dark skinned. You should see the looks we get going out in public with four white adults and eight Hispanic kids! Oh, the confusion there is so comical... We always joke about having our own football team.
You know, my thing was never getting the whippings. It was having to go choose the device of my destruction. Thick switch, thin switch, wooden spatula, small handled cutting board, ruler... That was the worst part. Knowing I was in control of my punishment, but it would leave me thinking no matter what! Heck, the ol' timers could smack you with a toothpick and it'd hurt.
But oh, staying out after dark. We would be outside playing from pre-sunrise to far after sunset all summer long. The good ol' days. I would love to be a kid again.
I've always wanted to foster or adopt kids. Seems like there just aren't enough good parents to go around for all the kids out there. Bless you all for loving those kids! What a wonderful way to live your life! I always felt I had more love to give when my kids grew up and left the nest.
The only time we got to choose the instrument of punishment was with the switches....we only got whippings from belts or switches, so all those other things would have been a nice relief. And, yes, they could make anything hurt! Back then, if you deserved a whipping, you were going to get one and it would hurt bad enough that you couldn't stop snubbin' for hours.
As a added punishment, if school was in, I had to wear shorts so that the other kids could see the welts on my legs and I would be embarrassed by it. Couldn't get by with that today, but it was very effective then.
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