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My house hold is of different beliefs as well.
I think it's disrespectful not to celebrate Christmas or allow a tree but then to want you to celebrate his beliefs. I say if you want to celebrate one, you should celebrate them all equally and fairly.
My husband and I feel that children should be exposed to different religions and be allowed to choose at their own free will.
I'm kind of wondering if you should go some of these Saturday services. I don't know that much about his religion, but that sounds a bit extreme. I would see what is really going on and be open to it if it's all legit. HOWEVER, if you make an effort, he needs to do the same. Maybe alternate, one weekend you do his thing, the next he needs to stay home and help or spend time with you, etc.
My house hold is of different beliefs as well.
I think it's disrespectful not to celebrate Christmas or allow a tree but then to want you to celebrate his beliefs. I say if you want to celebrate one, you should celebrate them all equally and fairly.
My husband and I feel that children should be exposed to different religions and be allowed to choose at their own free will.
I'm kind of wondering if you should go some of these Saturday services. I don't know that much about his religion, but that sounds a bit extreme. I would see what is really going on and be open to it if it's all legit. HOWEVER, if you make an effort, he needs to do the same. Maybe alternate, one weekend you do his thing, the next he needs to stay home and help or spend time with you, etc.
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