ok i need to vent!!.....this is nothing against single parenthood at all just one person...I was a single parent for the first 9 years of my daughters life....a few months i listed a few items on the net to give away, it was anwsered by a very young single mom (pregnant with her sencond mistake as she claimed) a child is a blessing not a mistake to me....my son is 19 months so every thing he out grows goes to the garage and then given away...back to this young girl....shows up in a clunker that should of died years ago and very poorly dressed (some thing i would not be cought dead in at 5 month pregnant, more suitable for the red light area of town) she spends some times rumaging through what i have to give away...mentoning that most of it was junk and that i had waisted her time and gas money to drive all the way to my place.... she wanted to know if i had more....i do but not for her.....i need to keep my pack n play and baby gap clothes ...so thoses were up not up for grabs....then then suguested that i give her gas money so she could be on her ways.....i told her no and told her if she had a problem with that she could take it up with my husband at the sheriff dept (his work) with that she took off.
today i was thumbing through my e-mails when her name came up in one of the local want adds...so i read it...this is the most part that desturbs, she post the fact that she has nothing for a baby that is due in october and in the bottom of her posting..... she adds that she is in need of a docter to deliver her baby?........WHAT?.....no prenatal care? and this poor baby has to be deliverd by c-section?.......how can people go through a whoe pregnancy and not see a docter and hope to have a normal pregnancy?
today i was thumbing through my e-mails when her name came up in one of the local want adds...so i read it...this is the most part that desturbs, she post the fact that she has nothing for a baby that is due in october and in the bottom of her posting..... she adds that she is in need of a docter to deliver her baby?........WHAT?.....no prenatal care? and this poor baby has to be deliverd by c-section?.......how can people go through a whoe pregnancy and not see a docter and hope to have a normal pregnancy?