10 commandments for a MIL by Iola M. Irwin

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I read posts from time to time about MIL issues. Not sure if this belongs here but here goes:

Thou shalt love, honor and respect the new couple.
Thou shalt allow them complete independence
Thou shalt speak only kindly and loyally about them.
Thou shalt not find fault.
Thou shalt not visit them too frequently, and never enter their home without knocking.
Thou shalt not expect them to visit you too often.
Thou shalt not give advice unless requested.
Thou shalt not mention how much you look forward to grandchildren.
Thou shalt respect their taste in home decorating, through it differs from your own.
Thou shalt petition daily the Heavenly Father, in whose love they abide, for their happiness.

I think this was in Dear Abby's column years ago. I found it in my jewelry box.
 
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Thankfully my now passed away MIL followed it to a T and so does my new Step MIL. Both were/are wonderful people and I am lucky to have them
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Can I add:

Thou shalt not get so upset at Christmas time you imbibe 3 bottles of plum wine, and tell thy daughter in law that she is "not thin and not tall".
 
Thou shalt not constantly compare your new DIL to your ex-DIL, even if it's in the new DIL's favor. It will scare your new DIL into thinking that one day, she too, will be referred to as a back-stabbing money-grubber.
 
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I completly agree!! BUTTTTT I would add:

Thou shalt not live with MIL
Thou shalt not live with DIL
And all shall be well with all.....

Connie
 
Thou shalt not comment on your DIL parenting skills and decisions nor shall you go behind her back and try to sway your son to your way of thinking.
 
I thank my luck stars that my MIL is so amazing. Granted, there have been a few bumps along the road, but nothing terribly serious. Overall, she is awesome. I don't know what we would do without her. I love her to death.
 

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