Sorry to hear that. My boy Flip was hand raised and he turned out really sweet. But I have raised plenty of others that are not so nice. Flip is actually really affectionate with people. He’s great with the girls, too, even the one that doesn’t like him, lol.
I have a son of his, almost 4...
My guesses... 1 is female, 2 is male, 3 I won't venture a guess on. I've hatched 4 whole BCMs in my life, and they were all male, so my experience is quite limited, haha.