Chicks4kids -
I applaud your efforts and I pray this all has a positive outcome for you! Seems to have been a good brainstorming session here. I think you were very wise to get many opinions and ideas from many varied people with many varied experiences before coming to your own conclusions...
You are right. You need to know. And when I think about it this is a way of trying to protect her. I have been through this and I agonize about decisions I have made. I'm still going through it. I used to joke that 2 out of 3 ain't bad but inside my heart was breaking. I wish you all the...
I guess imo deceit is deceit. Has she been trustworthy till this point? I think it wouldn't be a good idea to give her reason not to trust your actions. Could you bring up the subject and ask her about it in such a way that it isn't accusing her so she feels backed in a corner? Maybe talk to...
That's good news that she didn't drink it but in my opinion this approach is being as sneaky and untruthful as shes being. I guess I just think these things should be dealt with openly and HONESTLY. And right away. It could be just curiosity and experimentation at this point but there could...